“If you want look good in front of thousands, you have to outwork thousands in front of nobody.”
Mosby over at Mountain Guerrilla recently made a post about the discipline to show up train when you don’t want to.
This essentially is avoiding low level decision making. It’s powerful. It’s often a large part of success.
Getting up early to go to work, day in and out, regardless of how you feel or how tired you are. Going to the gym after work is the same. Hitting 10 min of dry fire before bed. These disciplines also have a theme of avoiding low level decision making. You’ve made the decision to do these things so just do them no matter what. You don’t have to think about it. It’s just who you are.
In Mosby’s patreon post, he talked about place holder work outs. I do this somewhat often. Especially as I’m getting older and my body is more beat up, I might find myself doing less squat work than I normally woukd due to injury or extreme fatigue. But I’m still showing up and doing work.
There’s a lot to say about showing up. But the work has to be done correctly and in the right areas otherwise it’s time wasted.
I’ve written extensively over at Zerogov.com about doer’s vs. talkers. I’ve been at odds with lots of friends and acquaintances because I’ve seen through their bullshit fairly quick that they just want to talk about doing instead of doing.
Which brings us to something that I have been seeing lately in the prepper space. An acceptance you can really only do so much, and you just have to live your life. I think most folks with a brain come to this conclusion.
Which brings us to the next point. Leisure. Or “living your life.” What exactly is “living your life?”
For me, I don’t go on extravagant vacations, ride a Harley or go to the lake. I shoot, I train, I hike and backpack, and I live a rural lifestyle. “Training” is just what I do.
We often see prepper groups and range buddy’s spending lots of time on the conraderie part of the equation. You know, come over, bring the family, have some food, watch us drink beer, etc. If you look at the end of the year, and you are being honest, you’ll probably see the amount of hours spent talking, hanging out, drinking, etc are a greater percentage than your training.
I’ve spent years on that. Years of wasted time. Mostly because no one wanted to commit to train even remotely close to my training pace. It was all social.
A lot of range trips and “training days” often turn into 75% talking about training and 25% training.
The talking is usually billed as “community building.” I think it’s the opposite. Community building is done by doing hard shit with hard people. Why not “build community” while running range drills?
Over the last 10 years, I’ve held to something I call proactive apathy. I’m aware of what’s going on in the system, but it’s not my focus. I control what I can control. I’ve heard all the problems for 20+ years. It’s still all happening like a broken record. The answer is always in the work and yourself.
Back to this leisure stuff.
I was chatting with a buddy recently and he put forth the notion that every Alpha type has an opinion or agenda about what training is the most important. And that’s a fact.
The thing is much of this can be definitive or objective. The problem mainly comes with folks not lining out their actual use case/mission or application.
The experienced “tactical” guy might say “we need to be looking at EDC pistol work!” And the Doomsdayer is gonna only be talking about Red Dawn. And everyone just talks past one another.
Define the actual mission/application and those with common sense, experience, relevance and currency, can easily come to a consensus about what to train. It’s almost objective.
Which is honestly why guys make such good jokes about the LARPer’s. (On the flip, all training is LARPing, till it ain’t…)
I’m of the opinion lately, that most of this “preparedness” stuff is a hobby first and foremost. It might be driven originally by a fear of the unknown or a sense to prepare to be more self reliant, but in end there is preference involved.
Bushcrafters gonna bushcraft. Shooters gonna shoot. Commo guys gonna commo. Of course there’s overlap, but let’s not forget the focus often time reflects our interests. Especially with a lack of understanding of basic mission planning.
The PrepperPorn crowd illustrates this pretty well, if they can even define their actual mission context in the first place. We often hear abstract aptitudes like “I’m doing this to defend my family” or “self defense.”
They then proceed to ignore all the current, likely and probable threats, and proceed to work on skills they’ll use in their prepper fiction dream that has a .0000001% chance of happening.
Be honest. If one is training current TTP’s they learned off Garand Thumb from the war in the Ukraine, and they live in CONUS, that’s great. But just be honest and say it’s tactical fantasy band camp. It has nothing to do with the daily interpersonal violence that happens daily in America. Just amend your mission statement. No use pretending it’s something it’s not.
I have a real interest in tactics. How high level folks solve problems and what tactics are employed in certain missions. It’s an interest. Like history. I don’t really fantasize that I’m gonna be running raids with the goons next week.
Stepping further away, you can see if one does indeed train for things like “Ukraine,” but they can’t deliver the basic hard skills or possess the skills to defend themselves from daily threats, the priorities are wrong. In fact they might actually be full of shit.
Some can easily point out it’s unlikely I’ll ever need a sub 2.0 Bill or need to make a 675 yd head shot. But, I’m unsure where training relevant skills to CCW/EDC or hunting, and over developing those skills is a negative. If I can hit a 6” plate at 675y, a 8” vital zone if an animal at 300y is gravy. Has anyone in a fight ever said “damn I wish I didn’t spend all that time training!” Or “man, I woulda done so much better at this match if I just wouldn’t have dry fired so much.”
I train shooting because I like it first and foremost. It’s who I am. Originally motivated by the EDC / Sheep Dog mantra’s, I’ve come to realize it’s way more than that. I’m not pretending I’m in the Ukraine sniping Russians at 700 when I shoot SPR’s. To me it’s about performance. About getting better at something I like. Being harder to kill and more useful in general is a side benefit.
For most of the punisher skull crowd, it’s about standing around talking about being a bad ass instead of being a bad ass.
I’ve hosted classes locally for years and still do to some extent. Nationally known instructors and lesser know for atleast the past 7-8 years. I had some interest in my friend group early on. It soon dwindled to virtually zero after a couple years. I over grossly over estimated the interest level in a fairly large and broad group of preparedness minded folks locally.
I started hosting classes so I didn’t have to drive 6 hours for a class. It took away a large portion of travel time, allowing me to train more often.
If anything within 2 hours of me happened in the shooting world, I was there. Very rarely were the guys from the preparedness circles.
Around 10 years ago, there was an unofficial study out that roughly said there about 5000 serious shooting students across the country who take multiple classes a year. It’s prob many more than that, but the comparison is still useful. Say 10k serious shooting students out of 10’s of millions of gun owners.
Of the very small percentage that shows up to train, probably 10% or less of them actually do the work outside of the class.
For many this is purely a social thing. A collectivist activity. “Training.” In reality, most of the people doing the real work are suffering in silence. They show up every day. You have to be relentless. Nobody cares about your problems. If you’re training for self defense, your opponent sure doesn’t care. The same is true of competition. You don’t really need to talk about it, but the results need to speak for themselves. Do the work and everyone will know without you saying a words.
I’d urge folks to stop focusing on this outlandishness and talking. Avoid low level decision making. Show up for the work and don’t give yourself an excuse.
To be continued…